How do you know when a relationship is truly over? Can you just sense it? What if you think everything is going good only to find out that you were misled? You ever notice how people that barely know what's going on always say things like, "You guys looked so happy. Are you sure you can't work it out?" But what do you say when people that are around you a lot of time say things like, "It makes sense. I saw it coming a while ago." If they saw it coming why didn't they say anything to you? Would you have listen if they had? Most likely not. We all too often tend to miss all the little hints we are given. Maybe it just becomes habit to be with the other person and live the way you have been living. Who knows why we miss or overlook these things. Some of us are just in a world of our own.
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10/1/2010 12:09:29 am
I've noticed that people also say things like "they are my world" and " I don't know what I would do without them". That is setting themselves up for failure. If you give yourself totally to a person or devote too much of yourself, to the degree where you become lost in them, then you are the problem. They have a saying "hindsight is better than foresight" and I cannot see where it comes from. That statement advances that it is better to see things after they happened rather than before. The reason? You are caught up in the moment and cannot see clearly. Later on, when there is no pressure to make a decision, you can see the overall picture. The big difference in life is whether you live objectively or subjectively. When you are subjective to people and the world around you you live in hindsight. When you are objective and see things before they happen most of the time you live with foresight. You are searching and becauuse of that you will find what you seek. Leave a Reply. |
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