You know what, even when the kids are grown up, it is still hard on them. A divorce is never an easy thing. Not for either side. And it's even harder if children are involved. Even if the kids are old enough to take care of themselves. Who side to you take? How do you choose? Mom or Dad? You may say that they don't have to but yea they do. You have to remember EVERYONE involved. Not just you and your spouse. Your family, your spouses family, your kids. Who's right and who's wrong? Is there even a right or a wrong involved? You can't change your heart. Things tend to change and we all have to make the hard choices of our own lifes. Just remember When you making the choice, Everyone is involved!

You ever notice how not all of your friends get along? Usally one of them just can't stand the other one. When you were younger everything was easy. You either hung out with everyone or you sat by your self. No one really cared what you did or who you knew. But now, everything matters. Who you know, what you do, and how you do it. Why can't we just be ourself and everyone get a long? Is it to hard to be nice? What makes you any different then the person nexted to you. We are mostly born equal. Why don't we start acting like it?

Things are so much different now then from what I remember when I was younger. I remember not being able to go over to my friends house without my parents meeting their parents. Now parents couldn't even tell you where to begin to look for their children. What happened? Did parents get a little lazier through the years or is this  some kind of stand to help our kids be more independent? Independence is a good thing. But are we giving our children to much of it? s that even possible to do? and what will the next generation be like? parents, please thank about these questions as your raising your kids.

So its the 4th of July. Well happy 4th. so many things happen on this day. everyone be safe and remember the basic of safety. dont rush around today. this is very important today of all days. go and have fun!! enjoy this time now before your to wore out. go eat some BBQ. Just remember common sense. if fire comes from it, dont stand next to it. lets make this something that can continue for our grandchildren to come. if we keep doing the dumb stuff, we're gonna ruin it for everyone else. just remember these words when your out having fun today. HAPYY 4TH OF JULY EVERYONE!!

We all have had one or more of our favorite celebs that we thought about adding to our myspace. But then we don't because we also think about all the people who pretend to be our favorite celebs. But why do these people do this? Some do this because they truely believe they are helping that celeb out. But really all your doing is hurting not only the fans but also the celebs you pretend to be. And the othere people that petend only do it to hurt PEOPLE. Which is what celebs are. They are PEOPLE! Remember that. So please do everyone a favor, just be yourself!